Lily Allen has lashed out at her ex-husband David Harbour and mocked his abilities in the bedroom following their separation.

The British singer, 39, split from the Stranger Things actor, 49, late last year after four years of marriage. 

Now, Lily has revealed that she is still ‘not over’ the breakdown of her marriage during a live audience recording of her podcast, Miss Me?, at Hackney Empire in London.

Speaking at the theatre on Mare Street, Lily also mocked David and her other exes, including her first husband Sam Cooper, for not prioritising her needs in the bedroom.

‘I don’t think there has been one person that has been remotely interested in my pleasure,’ she said.

‘I have actual d**k blindness. I can’t even picture – not even my ex-husband’s or boyfriends. I can’t picture them at all. Apart from one as I have pictures of it on my phone.’

Lily Allen has lashed out at her ex-husband David Harbour and mocked his abilities in the bedroom following their separation 

The British singer, 39, split from the Stranger Things actor (both pictured in 2023), 49, late last year after four years of marriage 

Speaking to her Miss Me? co-host Miquita Oliver, Lily admitted she is now going to look for a younger partner after splitting from David, who was ten years her senior. 

‘I have got daddy issues. A father figure. But I am trying to stop that now,’ she added.

Lily and David tied the knot in Vegas in 2020, and the couple moved from London to the United States.

However, last December, friends confirmed they had split after living ‘separate lives’ for months. 

Lily said of their split: ‘I am not over it. I am sort of running away. Maybe I will have a nervous breakdown.’ 

The former couple originally met on the celebrity dating app Raya in 2019. 

Previously speaking on The Jonathan Ross Show, Lily shared that she was only ‘swiping for a bit of fun’ when she came across David dressed as a ‘Sєxy policeman’.

‘I didn’t know who he was. I thought he was just like a Sєxy policeman from a reality TV show because he was wearing a policeman’s uniform. It was a still from Stranger Things. I’d never seen Stranger Things,’ she said.

Speaking to Miquita Oliver during a live show, Lily mocked David and her other exes, including her first husband Sam Cooper, for not prioritising her needs in the bedroom 

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‘I don’t even know what I was looking for. It was just something to do on holiday, swiping, it’s a bit of fun.’

‘When I met him I didn’t think it was going to go anywhere. He was here filming Black Widow. He was only going to be here for a couple of months. And then it did [go somewhere].’

Their separation came after Lily turned amateur sleuth after speculating that David had ‘cheated’ on the same dating app.

Lily was left in ‘agony’ when she allegedly discovered the actor had a secret profile on the celebrity dating app, The Mail on Sunday revealed.

The pop star played detective by joining the app herself, pretending to be ‘looking for women’ – and allegedly found that David had already set up a dating profile. He was reportedly listed on the app as being active for at least a month.

Raya is so exclusive that it accepts only around eight per cent of applicants, but it has more than 10,000 members, with 100,000 on the waiting list.  Once users find a new partner, they usually disable their profile.

A source said: ‘Lily was looking for women that were on Raya and cross-referencing them with women David follows on Instagram to try to figure out who he was seeing. She was doing her Wagatha thing.

‘Lily only rejoined Raya to try to figure out whether he was seeing someone.

‘Lily has never even looked at anyone since she met David. She is devastated. He broke up with Lily a month ago. He was meant to be on holiday with her in Kenya over Christmas.’ 

It comes after Lily was left in ‘agony’ earlier this year when she allegedly discovered the actor had a secret profile on the celebrity dating app Raya, The Mail on Sunday revealed

Lily met David on Raya in 2019 and they both deleted their accounts after enjoying a whirlwind romance, marrying in Las Vegas a year later (pictured together in 2022)

David’s alleged dating profile, exclusively revealed by the Mail on Sunday, read: ‘Visiting New York from Atlanta’ and ‘closet nerd that plays tough guys on your TV.’ 

He listed his profile song as the Houses Of The Holy by Led Zeppelin.

It also described him as living in Atlanta, Georgia, 800 miles from the family home in Brooklyn, New York, where the couple moved in 2020, with Lily enrolling her children in local schools. 

He bought a house in Atlanta last year to be closer to the Stranger Things set, as the show is currently filming its fifth and final series.

Lily’s circle of London friends said she had suspected for some time that her husband was interested in other women.

By the time the couple broke up, she had become convinced that he had a secret girlfriend. 

A source previously said: ‘Lily is of the belief that he has been open to meeting new people for some time now, though she only found out at the end of the summer. He has been living in Atlanta for a year for filming.’